Showing posts with label advice from preschool teachers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice from preschool teachers. Show all posts

Friday, September 25, 2009

Mom's Night Out

Well guess what?  After all my talk about women lying to each other about parenting, I had a lovely night of open, honest communication with a group of moms.  The teachers at the school arranged a happy hour/dinner last night and about 20 moms came.  We had a great time comparing stories about meltdowns, stubbornness, how we've lost our patience, etc.  Plus everyone (except me) enjoyed a few cocktails and got some much needed downtime.  I highly recommend it.

Speaking of my daughter's teachers, I must say they have to be among the best.  I don't tell them enough how  much they are appreciated.  I recently ran across an article written by a preschool teacher with tips for what to do/not do as mom of a preschooler.  I confess, I am guilty of a number of these, but I vow to reform. 

For starters:
  • I have been on my cell phone a few times when I've picked her up.  Oops.
  • I sent her to school in her stupid puppy flip flops because it was easier than arguing with her.
  • I often linger too long when saying goodbye.  Mother's guilt.
  • I sent her to school once with this chicken toy that dances and sings the chicken dance.  It is very annoying.
  • Thi Thu helped me make their Christmas candy.  And I told them that.  In fairness, I washed her hands before we baked.
  • There are many times when I've picked her up in workout clothes.  Give me a break on this one.  I should shower, redo my makeup, and put nice clothes back on just to look good when I pick her up?  Sorry, don't agree with that one.
  • I've chatted with other moms at pick up.  Yes, I expect the teacher to still help me watch her.  My childcare bills are nearly as much as a house payment, so I have no remorse about that expectation.  Don't agree with that one either.
How about you all?